The other day I had a conversation with a Realtor who has been selling real estate for more than ten years. She's smart. She's ethical. Her clients love her. She knows her market, writes great contracts, and works incredibly hard. Yet she confessed something that surprised me. "I still struggle with my commission." It's not because she doesn't believe in commission. Its not because she's had clients complain. She struggles with commission mostly when the home has a higher price tag. As the...

You're Better Than Fine. So Why Does Life Still Feel So Heavy? If I asked how you're doing, there's a good chance you'd answer exactly like most successful women do: "I'm fine." Fine is the universal language of productive women. Fine pays the bills. Fine gets the kids through school. Fine builds careers. Fine manages households. Fine volunteers. Fine keeps everyone else's world running smoothly. But here's the question I've been asking myself lately: What if fine is actually the problem? Not...

Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never leave or lose. That sentence stopped me. Because we spend so much of our lives learning how to be in relationship with other people. How to be a good spouse. A good parent. A good friend. A good leader. A good business owner. A good agent. A good daughter. A good everything. But very few of us were ever taught how to be in a good relationship with ourselves. And yet, that is the one relationship we are...